Many had defined masturbation as an act of doing it with oneself. What this means is that you just need your very own hands and or a toy and then you et the job done without any third party. That’s quiet great and cool especially when you are the loner, lobe sex too much than your partner do or at least brings you closer to orgasm before sex.
Masturbation is very common and had been practised before anyone knew that it should be called Masturbation. What this means is that it’s really been an old practise among people of different races and sex. According to a research conducted by a sex theorist, most people have gone through the process at a point in their lifetime. This means that out of all of those reading this blog, one or two must’ve or will be attempting to or just finished masturbating. Its quiet simple.
Medically, its healthy to jerk off a lot. Science backed it up that ejaculating or climaxing regularly relaxes the nerves as hormones are released to the body. In fact, scientists went to the extent of saying masturbation in men help them release old sperms which are then replaced by newer and better ones which are smarter enough for battle in the uterus. Am sure you know what that means. So this way, a lot of people have schedules for their secrecy.
There are usually advises from sex therapists that couples should inculcate the habit if they don’t usually have too many time staying with one another rather than cheating. This reduces urges to at last a very low degree and of helps in relationship.
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Research also has it that men masturbates more than women. Well, that could be true because a woman is usually vulnerable to sex more than men. That’s simple as it seems anyway. So this practise had always been in debates, forums and lot of counselling forums.
This way, many try to stop the addiction. But the question is Is masturbating a bad thing; To your, your health and social life? The answer depends on your perception and how you feel about it.
Many at times, some new comers who get seriously addicted to masturbating might start having the feeling of guilt or dejection and so try stopping the act especially based on their religious views about the practise. But if a doctor is asked, he would actually tell you You’re good.
Just minimise everything and don let it affect you. What this means is that excess of everything is as bad as lack of everything. So this theory applies here too.
So in the normal sense, there is no crime to nature or the law while you sit in your secret watching a porn movie and then you are somewhere in the moon. But in the other side of it, there would be some effect which aren’t good for you or your health. So let’s talk them out.
#1. When it affects your social life
Like smoking, masturbation can become a very addictive act. It will so affect you that you feel urge to do it as often as you like and not minding the type of situation in which you are.
How this affects you is very important. So when you suddenly find yourself getting more adhered to your secret life than the normal life you should live, then there is a problem. If you are addicted that you feel urge even while you visit he restroom, then you’ve gotta visit the therapist too.
Anyway, everything should always be balanced with one not affecting the other. So make sure you do that to have a better and productive life.
#2. You don’t have a sexual orientation anymore.
People could be gay, Lesbian, bi or heterosexual. But while you become pleaser of yourself, then there might be a little problem as there isn’t yet a dictionary word for that.
Is simple. Masturbation helps in relationship. For example, if you are the type that doesn’t climax easily, this can take you closer to orgasm before having a sexual intercourse to finalise it. So its like an accomplice in relationship and shouldn’t be a relationship destroyer.
#3. You plan having babies
This applies to men. And yeah you’re right sperms don’t finish. But the quantity could reduce. Before conception takes place, there is need for a massive amount of sperm cells which needs to be introduced into the uterus and this quantity will increase the chance of conception especially while trying to have a male child (Based on popular believes) So you need many sperms.
The way you jerk should thus be reduced or stopped for a stopped for some time before planning the baby and after that, you can continue with your secret affairs.
#4. You don’t have a good lifestyle
Bad lifestyles life refusing to exercise, smoking excessively, drinking to the points of hangover, eating over processed foods, sitting and watching TVs all day long are all bad lifestyles which kills faster than death itself. Joining those styles with masturbation could hurt you too.
Although masturbation here won’t be the criminal but you’re losing your body nutrients and you are giving nothing good back to your body while you lose them. So correct your lifestyle first before you schedule the next jerk.
#5. Your mid finger is becoming too small
This applies to women and gay men who insert. Now when you start getting too wide since your vagina is too wide and doesn’t entertain you and switching to the next estate which had cause you piles, then you might need lots of surgeries. And that’s not good for a young woman since that might affect your sexual life.
This us usually the main cause of masturbation to some people. Annie a 16 year old lady said whenever she gets depressed, she masturbates as this relieves her to some extent. Although there are many reasons why the urge sets in but most people fall to Annie’s category.
Annie also said “The major reason why i get depressed is because am a loner. I find making friendship difficult. I don’t even have a boyfriend anyway.” She narrated. In her case, she needs to adjust to her situation and society so that she can mix up. If you fall victim of depression, you might want to meet a therapist.
#7. When your child catches you doing it
Although movies are what influence our lives and those of our children at most but while your child catches you jerking off might mean a lot in his/her mind. This could be dangerous to raising them in such condition. You can therefore try changing your routine or the location at last respect those children.
#8. Its now affecting your economy
After messing up the whole room, you try using your cloth because you heard a knock on the door which you needed to attend to. Believe me, those stains ain’t never going. Now this way, you need to buy clothes since your entire wardrobe is gone in cleaning your cums. You might wanna redress this.
#9. Inferiority complex
This is a very dangerous disease that happens to people and can eat up their life throughout their lifetime. This makes you feel so inferior that you think you can never achieve or make something great.
In relationship aspect, most feel they can’t hold or had a successful relationship probably because they have health issues, financial issues or disability issues or other mental issues that eats up their confidence.
This way, the hold back to their secret affairs which in turn destroys their relationship with others in their social settings.
If from the start you are able to control it, you might not he able to while you get deeper in the addiction. Hence, you jerk as many times as possible a day because you watch porno in excess. What pornography is made for is to create sexual arousal in people.
Teach them which sex style is better for them and how to approach Syed in their real sense. So if you are just starting life at 12, 13 or more and you get so hooked up with porn all the times, you might want to read other things and play iron man or watch better movies like Steve Jobs instead of wasting your time masturbating.
With that said. this practise could be bad as well as good but maintaining a healthy lifestyle for a better and more productive life is very important. So therefore things needs to always be balanced out.