Meeting a lady and making her fall for you would actually be the best thing that you’ll ever thought about on your mind. Now get me straight, many times, you see that dame but approaching a dame would make you feel somehow like an inferior fellow to the opposite sex. You then tend to console yourself with the common “I know my real partner would come somedays…” Superstition. Or something like “Im too big to sart running after a girl…a mere girl? GFB.” But come to think about this, do you really mean all this things you’ve said? Ask yourself deeply and grab out those questions from within and then table them one after the other then answer them with your very mind thought and see if they were really true. Well, it might be good to lie to yourself at least, you use that to compress your little crush aint it? Like what this post is all about, wooing that dame and getting here really turned on aint it. Okay, lemme start right now and stop being mean.
- Not every girls are that smart. : When i say that to my friends, it tends to bring back their very confidence back making them reassured that they are men andthat ladies are just ladies. But really, are those things really true? Well they are. I’m young am just 2 plus 20 but if you think am old eniugh to advice you, then please keep on reading te article….(Oh sorry i said please…come on its gonna be fun.) Okay back to the topic. She dresses cool, and her steps were like those of the old goddesses of the ancient Egypt. Bouncing in the midst of her friends, she seems to have a little boosted morale which in turn makes you feel depressed. You dont even look that hot thtat afternoon but this babe shouldnt be left untalked to. Well, believe me fellow bro, it’s very normal to have some thoughts like that. But like the heading of this sub topic, not every ladies are smart. The thing about ladies psychology is that women tends to be more boastfl when in the midst of their pairs. Just imagine her walking alone wile you are with your own homies…i mean lots of them who are standing and well dressed with a very nice escalade or range rover suv behind you guys. She would cat walk right in front of you all with total thumping of the heart. That is just the same way it is when she is with her pairs. She gains hers, you gain yours. But to conquer such feeling, you really need to do something within yourself…You really need to stand up against yourself and believe you really can dod it by going against that depressant within your brain making you depressed and thus turning you to an hardball against what is actually that beautiful. Build up the confidence. Walk up to her (Ladies love confident men.) That way, you will show her your real masculinity.
- She loves the confident guy. : And why do you think the girlfriend of my buddy was snatched by another dude… “Im not promoting that here please. “ It was because the dude was consistent and showed his real masculinity to the girl. Now, based on my investigation which i carried out on 12 young ladies, 9 of them actually admitted to it that they want their men to be hardworking before getting them. What simply meant is that she wants to play the hard to get. She knows she is gonna become your subordinate eventually but at least, for the start, you’ve gotta show that you have the gut to make her become that.
- Dont just expect a yes just like that. : Because she smiled when you smiled at her doesnt mean she’s tripping. She’s just being polite. You showed it first and she loves your politeness. Now just imagine yourself as the young lady, a guy just walking up to you asking you damn question and then you are like “Who the heck is this?” Anyway, be polite in your approach. Show yourself as some good and reliable.
Like I was saying about winning the heart, that doesn’t naturally mean that the heart gets won immediately. I mean You don’t even expect the almighty MJ to just start dating a chick just like that and things would go well immediately….that day. But the reality behind the fact and true nature of most successful relationships is that patience is one master key.[sam id=”2″ codes=”true”]
Like seriously, the manner at which some think about the feminine is so rigid that most think the female sez doesn’t have anything in their skull. Some might have even thought that even if something was there, the thing wasn’t smart or completely working. Anyway, all animals have brains and “we too do.” So since ladies have brain, the way things go the feminine way is quiet different from masculine style. Take it or leave it,
“You’ve gotta pay the bills…I mean even if I’m richer, it would be intimidating if I’m the one paying the bill…you’ve he’s gotta hold the CC for payment or few cash if necessary.” says Gabriella 27.
The philosophy is just there. A woman wants a man. Now being pronounced the man means a lot. It denotes some level of respect which the opposite gender is willing to give. Since the ego of so many makes them feel their female counterparts are duller than they are, then things go super wrong.
The moment you show your masculinity upon the female gender, the respects set in and then you go along with each other till the very last point but be warned….your blow isn’t the masculinity being discussed here. We meant you showing some lever of being the man.
So as the words go, loving and getting loved back doesn’t necessarily meant breaking the bank. I mean you should buy her things but not to win her heart. Well, at some point, I would agree very well that love and money go but not to a very long and lasting point. There are huge bunch if gold diggers. Yeah….and you are gonna be so f**ked when you just divorce and your prop are shared….men that’s cruel….”I did it all on my own.” well the government doesn’t wanna listen to that.
Loving and getting loved back has to do with simple rule of self respect. Now I would define that based on my own term. “Self respect is when you know your bound and you don’t wanna cross it.” yeah that’s the way I see it. When you know you shouldn’t do it and you did, you just disrespected me…which in turn might be chaotic. So at this junction, you should know what an talking about…”Respect your partner.” it’s as simple as that.
Show some love: Yeah…”You are my strength whenever am weak.” that was based on Celine Dion’s lyrics… but yeah that’s true and that’s how its meant to be. Show some love. Show that you care for her and she will love you simply back. Now many go with the philosophy of “If you show them how much you’re crazy, they start taking you for granted.” well….its a very dumb idea. Yeah you love me and you are showing that you hate me how do you expect me to read through your heart? Am not a ghost boy. Well that’s just it.
Be kind: Being kind is very useful. When you care for the woman, she feel loved. “Every women wants to be treated like a princess and not the queen.” That’s true in most cases. The Princess enjoys more respect from the King. You treat her like that, show some kind heart. Show your true affections and try to see things from her point of view.
Be Polite: “What the fuck?” or “You know I use to F many B**ches when I was younger.” Duh, nobody cares about your youth days boy…grow up. Being polite also drive in some self respect to the woman making her feel secured and relaxed with you unless you want a quickie lady.
Be Hygienic: “Like sincerely, my ex was a computer developer and so he’s usually busy. Menu this guy doesn’t remember to brush on some cases.” Lol…Well, if you guy isn’t that hygienic, I guess you should use some “Big African chewing stick.” it helps remove mouth odor. And don’t expect to just hug a bae with that smelly armpit….try Gillette. its isn’t expensive. You are rich after all.
The most important of all points is that you should be the initiator. Yeah if you don’t understand that I’ll make it clear. You started dating her right? You don’t expect her to suddenly start visiting you the next day or call you that night to say “Goodnight bae…” I mean you’ve gotta drop your ego and high shoulders and be polite and be a gentleman for few weeks at least. That really helps secure the breath of the lion that seems difficult at first. Yeah.