There are some things that matters and some that doesn’t. In a period like this, the Valentine would actually be as such as one wants it to be. In any case you find out about where to go how how to go about that then you are just right in the place. Actually, Valentine’s day is a popularly celebrated period of time where by people usually couples go out together to have a too time. Now what if you don’t have a valentine? It might be better to stay on you own? Well then it might not too. Either way, its usually good to have someone to share with in such case. But in other cases, it might be time consuming process. And yes it might be in a case where by you are a developer, a busy person who just don’t have much time for the social life. Or you just broke up. Popular joke has it that people tend to break up during this time than normal but either that’s true or not, your case might be different. Being a woman or a man without a “Coolie” to share with during this valentine period might be detrimental to your psychology in some aspect or in fact make you feel more blessed. How does that happen? Well it happens. It happens if you are go example in a project time whereas your client requests or you’ve promised to submit such project before its 15th. So your mind might never be adhered to what so ever lot making….right? I don’t know how you feel but I can’t speak for everybody. But really, what if you don’t have a Coolie? What if you are a loner? What if you you just broke up and you might be feeling a little bit of jealousy with your friends well, here is what I feel might be of good use of your time during time.
Wouldn’t you actually be having to go out on the Valentine’s day?
Well that question might be funny. You can actually go out. But going out in what sense or to where actually? During such a period like this, couples tend to go out to have good time within such short period to at least express their love for themselves in a manner or another….but since you are in the league of those without a dear, then you might he doing it….right or wrong. Whatever it is anyway, there are places you can or should be during such period that can make you feel loved and before you know what’s up, the day is gone. So let’s go through that list.
#1. Visit the Cinema:
The cinema happens to be the house of fun. Right there, you meet series of people from different places with different orientation. Now, a visit to such a place would boost your moral and take off the boredom. This happens when you mingle with those around you. Right in cinemas, there are usually movies getting released each weekend. And luckily for you, you’ve just gotta sit back and relax as you mingle with the movie while it goes on the screen for your pleasure. The benefit could be long tailed being that you are a loner trying to wet the game apart and so you might be so lucky enough to meet that perfect part of you right there which would be automatically scheduled till the next Valentine’s day! Whatever it is, you just need to go out that day and don’t get yourself depressed in your home. The cinema would be really nice.
#2. Go to church, Mosque, of Temple or Shrine.
Well, this might change your spiritual views about life anyway. Since 14th falls on Sunday, this would be an addition to the church or any other place of worship you so want to visit. Now the importance of visiting such place while unable to find a date is because you actually get your time to stay focused on something. The Pastor preaches or the Temple leader does what he knows best and you listen with your heart. That way, you learn more and you forget ever being a loner. And before you know what’s up, someone from the congregation might wanna hook up with you via your number…that could he another schedule for the next Valentine’s day.
#3. Visit Stadiums
Are you a sport fan? If yes, then this would be an advantage for you. Do you have any idea of how many people watches football every weekend? So you are just one in the 100s of thousands. Right there, you get to play, laugh, shout, scream and do all sorts of things that makes you happy and leaving behind your loneliness. That’s just why sport was created anyway. So that way, all you want to do is get yourself a ticket tomorrow and get prepared for the big matches. In case your budget isn’t that big for the stadium or ticket is finished, you can visit a showing center….yeah! Those places are alternatives and believe it, there are hundreds of people right here too. They love that thing you love and the deal is straight.
#4. Go for shopping
Rather than scheduling for Saturday, you just postpone it till Sunday. Shopping during the weekend us usually better because you have all the time to do those things you’ve planned for and ahead of the week. So this way, you get the view straight without having to worry that much. As usual, while going shopping, you meet with people. You see hundreds others right at the shopping mall. You aren’t the only one shopping though….that’s what you’ll notice and that would help you in series of ways. So better still, its usually better and nice to do the right thing the right way. Now, this help easing off the lone-mood.
#5.Do some laundry then.
While you might get worried or think about how to start it, Saturday would be better usually for some house cleaning and laundry but since you are trying to make the Sunday a quiet interesting one without having to remember the fact that you are lonely, then it might be better to do it the way I’ve suggested. How it goes is that you postpone the laundry and house cleaning till Sunday and while doing it, the nice hip hop song eases off the stress and while you are exhausted to think about anybody, you are just better than a cold loner.
#6. Go to the beach or Zoo
This is an amusement visit. Don’t forget to go with your camera or at least with your camera phone ready. The essence of this is that you get to meet people, animals and all sorts of interesting activities are just in stock. for you. Its usually more fun to visit those types of places rather than sitting down and thinking about a broken heart or a missed out fellow. Now, while you meet different people, you are happy and you are just ahead of the emotion of loneliness…believe me.
#7. Visit those neighbours
While you might have been invited over to dine and you’ve overlooked the invitation, now is the time to honor that visit. Look around for your very best cloth and get yourself ready for the visit to your neighbours. Now, either a member of the opposite sex or not, you just need to mix up with new people so as to take off the old ones from your very lonely mind. Visit and don’t feel reluctant to do so.
#8. Pay a visit to an old friend
As this would be very pleasant making your friend very happy for you have remembered them a lot, it would actually help you too. Now imagine yourself going through some tough situation with yourself after being left out in the dark part because you broke up. You will realise that its not you alone that sits down and miss those days back then. Now so as to ease off your mind, going to visit a friend of in fact a family friend or Grannies would make sense too. Those interesting stories they tell about your days while you are young would make your day interesting as you go on.
#9. Visit a Game center
While you are like getting probably bored up of watching movies or sports in the stadiums or cinemas, why not just visit a game center. Now this is different from the latter because game is a “Do it yourself” action whereby you control yourself….or character and manipulates it. Now this could be so interesting and in fact addictive for the rest of that day. Your mind gets stick up to the game since you probably don’t Wang Dracula to kill your character. So here, you don’t feel lonely. You have an opponent which could be an human Luke yourself and sitting beside you or somewhere else but connected with you via the internet. Games are great tools for erasing boredom especially during this lovers time.
#10. Learn something new that you love
Whatever that is….you just put up a phone call to the teacher and start learning that day. Visit him or her and make some interesting arrangements which would strengthen your skills. Its usually great to be brilliant. Now to be brilliant demands learning new things which you especially have full passions for. So either way, you’ve just gotta have to brave enough to fight off the loneliness in your heart and stand up against it by creating a new mindset…..to learn. This way, your boredom would he gone and loneliness is forbidden.
Now you know how important it is. But its usually very hard to let go of the past at times but its usually better to give it up while filling the gap with something ore interesting. But as stated, you can actually have a day without a Valentine this Sunday. Jut relax and keep to the rules that makes your life better.